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Deborah J's avatar

Wow....... like..... my words are dumbfounded! I honestly don't believe I've ever been conscious, aware, noticed or even thought about any of this.... I've always just taken everything as is and gotten on with it..... I never stopped to think about how women of Ireland have been molded in this way, segregated, fenced out, fenced in, manipulated and isolated in this way.... you kins of just accept the roles were as they were, because of the lives we led, but honestly never knew or had any association of how the famine and the the civil war, really cut us off at the knees.... wow... wow... wow

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Christine H's avatar

I’m so glad to have found your writing. I’ve lived in South Africa and Germany but have Irish parents and it’s very interesting to me, learning about Irish history and the concept of a “tight culture”, and how this has influenced women. My dad’s side of the family is from Belfast but my grandmother on my mum’s side is from Wicklow. I’ve realised that my mum often has an irrational, inadvertent fear of what people might think, and so did my grandmother. I believe this has influenced my social anxiety (among other things). It’s something I need to investigate further, but I’m curious about the influence tight cultures might have on social anxiety.

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